Rebecca is restored!
Rebecca lives in a place heavily controlled by a major terrorist organization. Since she was a child, family members sexually abused her. Even though she is well-educated and has a good job as a dentist, she feels as if she has nothing. At one point, her father was taking all her salary, and she saw herself as no more than a servant in her own house. She couldn’t differentiate guilt from the deep sense of shame she felt from her abuse. More than once, Rebecca contemplated taking her own life.
Last year, after coming across Arab Woman Today’s campaign “It Is Not a Shame,” she reached out to an AWT team member. “Can you explain to me the difference between guilt and shame?” she asked. This AWT team member explained the difference to Rebecca, who then understood things more clearly.
“Thank you!” Rebecca exclaimed. “Now I can tell why I mixed up guilt and shame.”
This AWT team member reaffirmed to Rebecca God’s love for her and her value in his eyes. With some time, Rebecca began to get rid of her feelings of shame from her abuse. She was able to stand up to her father in order to keep half of her salary. Not too long ago, Rebecca moved into a dormitory near her dental practice, where she finds respite during the workweek from her abusive family. An AWT team member regularly keeps in touch with Rebecca, often sending her encouraging messages. Before long, she will respond back and share her current struggles.
Each message and phone call is like medicine for her bones. “I’m on a journey toward healing,” she recently shared. We are glad women like Rebecca heard the truth about honor and shame in a way that is bringing healing to their hearts and lives.
Encouraging glimpses from 2021
"I will endure. I will never allow my self-confidence and self-image to be shaken. I thank God for having gained satisfaction and self-acceptance. Thank you for listening to me, believing in me, and guiding me. I didn't know what to do without your support."
"Based on what I learned from the workshop, I can say to myself, 'I am important, loved, and beautiful. I'm accepted in the eyes of God.' I find my value in him and his precious blood that he shed for me. He is worthy of praise because he is good and faithful. He never forgets his beloved, precious daughters."
Nabeeh and Ruba Abbassi